My name is Janet Ní Shuilleabháin, I also use the name Sharrow online. I’m currently a Mature Student at DCU and blog about that in the Unilife section. I am a parent with two brats, both of whom is on the autistic spectrum. I am a feminist, gamer, geek, inquisitive person. I can be found on twitter as @Sharrow_ie
This blog was once my online scrap book but it, like myslef has evolved over the years, it now Has sections,
If you need to contact me via email you can do so here: Ladyshadowsharrow [@] gmail .com
I have done a certain amount of press work over the last 2 years, if you are interested in reading/listening to what I have done have a look here.
Comments and questions are welcome, abuse is not.
I’ve not been bothered to have one of these explicitly spelt out, but after a few surges of hits to here and a selection of comments which followed all with in the same day and a very narrow time period and the ping backs have showed me were they came from well.
I am putting one in place.
I had expected there to be rational arguments and a civil discourse even with people who have differing opinions and view to my own. I enjoy discussion and debate.
But I won’t ever be publishing comments which denigrate me. If that is all your are aiming for with your comments then you are wasting your time.
22 to years ago when the CAO results came out I was in town with the girls from my year with the new edition of tomorrow’s newspaper, trying to look up the sting of numbers which hopefully was printed with against the course code I wanted. I didn’t see the code and I went home on the last bus to double check again on the kitchen table, I didn’t get what I wanted that year but I did two years later.
But they say 3 times the charm and this morning so much has changed in those 22 years, including how I got my offer. It arrived by text message, saying I had an offer for course code DC 131 and to log in to the CAO site to accept it. DC131 is the Degree in Communication Studies in Dublin City University.
Today I am giddy with excitement, the details and concerns as to how I make it all happen, the grant applications, the child cared ect can all wait for 24 hours while I revel in the idea that I am going to college this Autumn and all going well in a few short years I will graduate.
Most people go to university as a teen, I am going as a mature student. I am really looking forward to it. Just hope I don’t give in the urge to straighten the collars and pull down the shirts of my fellow first years.
“Genuine equality and human rights is no longer a gendered issue and feminism is not concerned with men’s issues. Either we need a parallel activism that advocates for men’s rights and against the excesses of feminism (and vice versa) or we need a new, syncretic movement for genuine equality that deals with the facts as they genuinely are and with the interplay between the differences, rights, responsibilities and freedoms of both genders and society in general.”
I do think a parallel movement is needed, one which is not about attacking feminists, but about supporting and providing space for men and boys.
None of my exs are entitle to my time, or closure. The notion that they are is very, very wrong.