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InternationaI Men’s Day 2024

InternationaI Men’s Day 2024

“To create loving men, we must love males. Loving maleness is different from praising and rewarding males for living up to sexist-defined notions of male identity. Caring about men because of what they do for us is not the same as loving males for simply being. When we love maleness, we extend our love whether males are performing or not. Performance is different from simply being. In patriarchal culture males are not allowed simply to be who they are and to glory in their unique identity. Their value is always determined by what they do. In an anti-patriarchal culture males do not have to prove their value and worth. They know from birth that simply being gives them value, the right to be cherished and loved”

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Glasgow in 2024

I wish to announce that I am not on any program items or panels for Glasgow2024 this coming August.  https://glasgow2024.org/whos-coming/guests-of-honour/

No I can’t be bothered to contact any press outlet about it, & I won’t be in the bar hanging out with George.

I am looking forward to an excellent few days celebrating shared joys with other fans.

This means that aside from scheduling clashes and lack of spoons I will hopefully get to all the panels & programming items I want and maybe volunteer a bit.

And meet many interesting people, I have a list,  and will have stickers.

No further comments at this time.

Grief and Long Covid

One of the saddest things about being in #LongCovid support groups, is new people who join who have gotten the condition in the last 6-9months, hopefully looking for a cure or treatment to get back to living their life.

They are frequently shocked to find there are no treatment protocols for #LongCovid approved by the HSE. All the clinics do is offer referrals to treat post covid consultations & symptoms.
We don’t even have the basics the NHS has about trying antihistamines.

When all the post covid conditions have been catalogued, & somewhat medicated, there is nothing for the crippling fatigue & brain fog.  For for the condition of #LongCovid it’s self.

None of the research being done in other countries about MCAS or microclots or viral debris, has been accepted here.
So they then want to know what supplements people are on or have tired, as Dr’s won’t talk abut or recommend them.

But while some of them may help, a small bit, none of them touch the chronic nature for #LongCovid

The latest thing we are now being told is, that our immune system is not behaving cos we are stressed, to quit #LongCovid support groups & try just to get on with our lives.

To be mindful, & work to get our parasympathetic nervous system to chill. So pretty much blaming us for our condition.

There are also people who are confused & then angry that they have gotten #LongCovid when they have been vaccinated, and if there is a vaccine, why isn’t there effective treatment.

They go through the entire cycle of grief. Which I know I am still in about how #LongCovid as restricted my life. I cant work, I have chronic pain, chronic fatigue, 7 new medical conditions I am on medications for and cost me a significant romantic relationship.

I understand their hope, hurt, disappointment and anger.

We need better led #LongCovid clinics, many infectious disease consultants do not want to be dealing with Long Covid.

And the HSE has to stop looking for the lowest cost ‘treatment’ for #LongCovid and the Dept of Social welfare keep not approving people for invalidity or disability payments.

Every time you get covid there is an increased risk you will develop #LongCovid even if vaccinated, many people new to the support groups were completely unaware of this & feel public health messaging let them down.

We are being ignored, written off, blamed, and gaslight about having the chronic condition with is #LongCovid.

At least 1 was 45 when I got it 3 years ago, I had lived some what of my life, unlike those in their 20s and the kids who have #LongCovid.
Right I am off to take my evening meds and extra pain killers cos this weather makes both the chronic pain and chronic fatigue harder to deal with.

Flesh and Steel

I am currently reading Flesh and Steel by Guy Haley. It is a #WarHammer40k book which finally deals with the gruesome creation of servitors, the systemic inequalities which degrade & oppress the ordinary citizens of the Empire.

The set up is well done, an investigator who has an augmented arm replacement, has to work with a tech-priest as body is found & the case over laps their jurisdictions. It’s an interesting mystery & delves into parts of the #WH40k universe I’ve not read before.
https://www.blacklibrary.com/all-products/flesh-and-steel-ebook-2020.html

Where is the life that late I led?

I miss when 7 hours sleep was a good nights sleep for me and I was grand to do what ever I wanted for the day.

These days its interrupted sleep and It’s 12 to 14 hours, and I spend most of my day on the sofa, doing very little, and still feeling tired. Also when ever I make plans, 1/3 of the time I have to cancel. I miss my old life.

With apologies to Mr Porter.

Where is the life that late I led?
Where is it now? Totally dead!
Where is the fun I used to find?
Where has it gone? Gone with the wine!

A Covid life may all be well
But resting just there
Could never compare
With raising a bit of hell
So I repeat what first I said
Where is the life that late Ied?

Vigils in memory of Michael Snee & Aidan Moffitt

A number of vigils in memory of Michael Snee & Aidan Moffitt will be held across the country in the coming days.
If more should be added, we will update this post with new info in the comments.
As of now, these are the vigils confirmed. Please check locally in case there are any changes.

Belfast: Friday, April 15, 6pm, City Hall
Cork: Monday, April 18, 6pm, Bishop Lacey Park
Carlow: Friday, April 15 , 6pm, Liberty Tree Fountain
Dublin: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Dáil Éireann
Galway, City: Saturday, April 16, 7pm, Eyre Square
Galway, Loughrea: Friday, April 15, 5 pm, The Long Point
Kerry, Tralee: Monday, April 18, 7pm, The Square
Kildare, Newbridge: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Liffey Linear Park
Killkenny: Friday, April 15, 6:30pm, Town Hall
Laois, Portlaoise: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Laois County Council Plaza
Leitrim, Carrick-on-Shannon: Monday, April 18, 6pm, Town Clock.
Limerick: Monday, April 18, 6pm, Arthur’s Quay
Louth, Drogheda: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Tholsel
Louth, Dundalk: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Town Square
Mayo, Ballina: Wednesday, April 20, 9pm, Tom Ruane Park
Sligo: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Town Hall
Tipperary, Clonmel: Friday, April 15, 7:30pm, Main Guard, O’Connell Street, Clonmel
Tyrone, Omagh: Friday, April 15, 7pm, Omagh Courthouse
Waterford: Friday, April 15, 6pm, John Roberts Square
Westmeath, Mullingar: Friday, April 15, 6pm, Mullingar Park
Wexford: Friday, April 15, 7pm, Wexford Quay
Wicklow, Arklow: Monday, April 18, 6pm, Arklow Bandstand
Wicklow, Blessington: Saturday, April 16, 6pm, The Square in Blessington
Wicklow, Bray: Friday, April 15, 5pm, Bray Bandstand

From https://gcn.ie/vigils-michael-snee-aidan-moffitt-across-ireland/

Trans Day of Visibilty

I just wish we were in a place where trans and non binary people were just respected decently, and had access to proper consent based, timely healthcare.

Non Binary and gender fluid people, don’t have the legal recognition they need, and the current healthcare is practically useless.The current healthcare for all trans people is gatekept appalling, is out dated and is harmful. Unfortunately to lobby and make changes it requires people to make themselves visible in a way which is often incredibly uncomfortable and frankly has dangers associated with it.

People shouldn’t have to make themselves ‘Publicly Visible’ to have basic healthcare.

Love and Solidarity To you all..

Text says, One in three transgender people identify as beisexual+

IMAGE of 3 people, 1 waving a bi pride flag, one waving a trans pride flag, one drapped in a trans pride flag.

Breaking Barriers!

Breaking Barriers is the theme for the Abortion Rights Campaign 10th Annual March for Choice; which will be a static demo due to Covid.

The Demo is taking place on Kildare Street and speakers will be:

People are still having to travel to get the Health Care they need. The promises made to introduce proper sex education, safe zone and free contraception have not been kept. We have come a long way over the last 10 years but there is much work to do.

We should be gathering

We should be gathering in my Grandmother’s house. Talking, listening, laughing, crying, for my Uncle died yesterday, after a long battle with Cancer.

I should be helping with endless pots of tea, making trays of sandwiches, lining up apple tarts on the counter top next to the fridge covered in magnets and washing another and another round of mugs, as family, neighbours and friends call in.

For the house to be full of people, some sitting on the arms of the armchairs, and spillin out into the back garden; but none of that can happen.

None of the rituals or gatherings which allow us to offer comfort with a glance or a touch. We won’t get share stories, to listen to our elders and our generation speak of him. To learn more of our family history, and the bonds between them, the ache when the first of siblings dies. To raise a glass together.

I should be in the kitchen or often as we were as grand kids, out in the back garden or even sitting on the stairs among family. But we can’t gather, and it is crueler then I could of imagined.

But we mustn’t gather so we do not loose anyone else.